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In hame man harf zadam....that's the part you picked out! :punishing_wft: che loos! binamak! :disguise2: :disguise2:

 

I guess I'm not much help after all! :haha:

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Dear Samra:

 

I have read what you have said above!

 

Personally! I have never been in those kind of situations! When I was in your age! I had so many mature people around me to give me advise and help me with my problems! When I look back! I see they were right! Although , sometimes I tried to solve these kind of problem with help of my own experience and ignoring everything else! but at the end I just realize that...what I have been told, most of the times, were/is right!

 

It takes a long way to be able to say! I love someone! It depends on your definition of love! People in different ages have different definitions for it! Even people in the same age, also have their own definition of love!

 

So! I guess! you have plenty of time left and plenty of good people to meet! and I agree with Keano ( the king ) and Tara jan... for the time being just don't take it hard on yourself!

 

I hope you find the way out of this " problem"!

 

 

Good luck! :) :th

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merci az hamatoon!!!!!!!!!....all ur advice really helped...and yes he backed away from me and stopped calling me when my dad blew up on him out of respect for my father...and he loved me just as much as i loved him....maybe even more....he wore a ring to represent me and our relationship...and he still wears it (i've seen in pics)..vali...i dunno...maybe ill go to iran and come back and either it'll work out...and we'll see how far we can make it...or ill come back and ill move on...hopefully without such a torn up hearrt.....thanks for taking the time and reading and responding...VAGHEAN....it means alot to me!!!!....booooooooos to everyone

 

<3 <3 Samra *still koochoolooo*.....lol

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wow ye salo nime kasi moshkeli nadare... thats grate.

 

man alan delam gerefte... kheyli vaghte ke hamash delam gerefte hamash nazdike geryam, sobha too rahe kar va zohra mogheye bargashtan hamash gerye.

mikham masire zendegimo avaz konam, alan salhast ke razi nistam vali bekhatere inke bache daram goftam bemoonamo besazam. vali in avakher be tasmim residam.

hodoode yek mahe dige vaghtesh mirese, va harchi be oon tarikh naziktar misham asabi tar misham.

hich kas ham nadaram bahash harf bezanam. famil ke aslan be hesab nemiyad chon harf fori be hame ja mirese. sare kar ham nemikham felan chizi begam chon oonvaght hamash mishe gerye va rahm kardan be hale man, and I hate it.

faghat ye doost daram ke midoone.

 

hamin, faghat khastam ye kam delamo khali konam

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Mojgan jan, aval az hameh bahas behet begam keh hameh kam va bish moshkel va dastan daran,har kasi beh yek nahvi !

 

Osulan maha (man va shoma keh balatar az 30 35 sal darim) masael va gereftariha ro jure digeh mibinim keh hatta kheili az irunia injuri nemibinan, hagh ham daran,emrouz-e ruz enghadar zendegi khali az ehsasat shodeh keh kam pish miad keh betuni pish-e kasi 2 kalameh harf hesab bezani .

 

Hala baz khubeh keh to famil dari, khahar baradar dari, man faghat maman baba daram va 3-4 ta pesar amu v dokhatar khaleh keh hamashun balayeh 60 sen daran va hich vaght paein az shoma beheshun chizi nagoftam,hala vay beh hale vaghti keh bekham darde del konam .

 

Nemidunam daghighan moshkelet chieh vali ino behet begam az zendegi-e khodam keh tajrobeh kardam,tuy-e in jaryanat keh misheh, refighayeh adam beh surat-e marmuzi gom mishan,dust-e vaghei kam gir adam miad ta dasti barat bala koneh,baraye hamin khubeh keh adam bishtar vabasteh beh khodesh basheh va injur beh khodesh beghabuluneh keh tanhast.beh khoda tanhaei sad bar az dashtane dustayeh magas maghz behtareh.

 

Behtareh hamisheh sabr dashteh bashi va beh zaman e'eteghad dashteh bashi,zaman khodesh kheili az moshkelat ro hal mikoneh,hich vaght ajaleh nakon,sabr va hoseleh dashteh bash... az hameh janeb moshkel ro bala paein kon... ino bedun keh khodet kolli khanum-e bahush va fahmideh hasti va hatman yek rah-e hal baraye moshkelet peida mikoni... behet ghol midam keh moshkelet hal besheh, nemidunam chetori vali beh delam hast keh hatman hal misheh.... Iman beh Khoda dashteh bash va beh poshtekar-e khodet ! 100% moafagh khahi bud azizam .

 

Ino bebin va hal kon :) .

 

 

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Its interesting how I've never in these past years been able to really relate to this thread! ...until now ...

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Its interesting how I've never in these past years been able to really relate to this thread! ...until now ...

 

 

:console::huglove:

 

 

awww merci azizam, you're the sweetest! :huglove::friends:

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Its interesting how I've never in these past years been able to really relate to this thread! ...until now ...

 

 

:console::huglove:

 

 

awww merci azizam, you're the sweetest! :huglove::friends:

 

du är sötare :winkiss: nice signature btw! :)

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why we still need others in solving our problems why we can not get ride of it by ourselves

 

Well deep down in your heart you know how to deal with most of your problems, all you really want is to see how others think and how they might have solved the problem. At the end it's still up to you to decide how to deal with the situation.

If, after talking with others, you think they are right you do what they say and if you still think you are right than you're supposed to follow your own heart and do as you think you should do.. Not many people are brave enough though...

 

And sometimes it's nice to talk to someone, the point isn't really finding a solution.

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So since moving to this new city to start my phd i have been feeling really down, i LOVE my work but i feel like even though im working hard im not playing hard! We dont really know any people to socialise with and to be honest there is no place nice to sit and talk whilst sipping on some tea or just having a little boogie!

 

Anyway delam gerefteh bud and needed someone to tell and who better than you lovely people :friends:

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why we still need others in solving our problems why we can not get ride of it by ourselves

 

Well deep down in your heart you know how to deal with most of your problems, all you really want is to see how others think and how they might have solved the problem. At the end it's still up to you to decide how to deal with the situation.

If, after talking with others, you think they are right you do what they say and if you still think you are right than you're supposed to follow your own heart and do as you think you should do.. Not many people are brave enough though...

 

And sometimes it's nice to talk to someone, the point isn't really finding a solution.

 

that's true i agree.

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So since moving to this new city to start my phd i have been feeling really down, i LOVE my work but i feel like even though im working hard im not playing hard! We dont really know any people to socialise with and to be honest there is no place nice to sit and talk whilst sipping on some tea or just having a little boogie!

 

Anyway delam gerefteh bud and needed someone to tell and who better than you lovely people :friends:

 

 

hi sara jan! well at the bright side its good that u LOVE your work. what if it was the reverse, you HATED the work but the social aspect was fine, I think that would be worse, cause you will eventually get to know new people to hang out with but you cant change your workplace/tasks. i think its quite normal when u have moved somewhere new to feel like this, but it'll get better im sure. :friends:

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So since moving to this new city to start my phd i have been feeling really down, i LOVE my work but i feel like even though im working hard im not playing hard! We dont really know any people to socialise with and to be honest there is no place nice to sit and talk whilst sipping on some tea or just having a little boogie!

 

Anyway delam gerefteh bud and needed someone to tell and who better than you lovely people :friends:

 

 

hi sara jan! well at the bright side its good that u LOVE your work. what if it was the reverse, you HATED the work but the social aspect was fine, I think that would be worse, cause you will eventually get to know new people to hang out with but you cant change your workplace/tasks. i think its quite normal when u have moved somewhere new to feel like this, but it'll get better im sure. :friends:

 

ghorbunet beram azizam, i feel better already :huglove:

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So since moving to this new city to start my phd i have been feeling really down, i LOVE my work but i feel like even though im working hard im not playing hard! We dont really know any people to socialise with and to be honest there is no place nice to sit and talk whilst sipping on some tea or just having a little boogie!

 

Anyway delam gerefteh bud and needed someone to tell and who better than you lovely people :friends:

 

 

hi sara jan! well at the bright side its good that u LOVE your work. what if it was the reverse, you HATED the work but the social aspect was fine, I think that would be worse, cause you will eventually get to know new people to hang out with but you cant change your workplace/tasks. i think its quite normal when u have moved somewhere new to feel like this, but it'll get better im sure. :friends:

 

ghorbunet beram azizam, i feel better already :huglove:

 

i think you'll feel better in time dear.

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So since moving to this new city to start my phd i have been feeling really down, i LOVE my work but i feel like even though im working hard im not playing hard! We dont really know any people to socialise with and to be honest there is no place nice to sit and talk whilst sipping on some tea or just having a little boogie!

 

Anyway delam gerefteh bud and needed someone to tell and who better than you lovely people :friends:

 

 

hi sara jan! well at the bright side its good that u LOVE your work. what if it was the reverse, you HATED the work but the social aspect was fine, I think that would be worse, cause you will eventually get to know new people to hang out with but you cant change your workplace/tasks. i think its quite normal when u have moved somewhere new to feel like this, but it'll get better im sure. :friends:

 

that's true.

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So since moving to this new city to start my phd i have been feeling really down, i LOVE my work but i feel like even though im working hard im not playing hard! We dont really know any people to socialise with and to be honest there is no place nice to sit and talk whilst sipping on some tea or just having a little boogie!

 

Anyway delam gerefteh bud and needed someone to tell and who better than you lovely people :friends:

 

 

hi sara jan! well at the bright side its good that u LOVE your work. what if it was the reverse, you HATED the work but the social aspect was fine, I think that would be worse, cause you will eventually get to know new people to hang out with but you cant change your workplace/tasks. i think its quite normal when u have moved somewhere new to feel like this, but it'll get better im sure. :friends:

 

ghorbunet beram azizam, i feel better already :huglove:

 

aww, im glad! :huglove:

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