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#1 Mademoiselle

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Posted 02 March 2008 - 04:26 PM

I wouldn't normally make a post like this, nonetheless I thought it wouldn't hurt to see what the general opinion would be here. I'm not going to waffle nor will I go into detail so...

Very recently I met this Iranian guy, we exchanged numbers b/c he told me he could help me with one of my essays :D Hehe! But anyway he called me and invited me out to 'get to know each other', I rejected it politely and said that I would be free-er in 2 weeks time (which is the truth). HOWEVER, I am really annoyingly cautious sometimes when it comes to relationships. I choose to dodge and avoid them more than to 'give it a try'. The main reason being b/c I REALLY REALLY hate having to tell someone I'm not interested in them...

What do I need to do? Learn how to reject guys after seeing them a little? But emm how? :giggle: OR do I need to take a more optimistic outlook on relationships? If so, how is that possible when some people only settle down after their 100th relationship? :haha:

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Posted 02 March 2008 - 05:55 PM

I think you are still a young girl and is too much soon having a serious relationship with a boy !!! specially an iranian boy !!!!

Naro bikhodi dust pesar begir..in chiza hamash dardesar, nah mizaran dars bekhuni va nah space dashteh bashi ! alan vaght-e ineh keh dars bekhuni va hal va houl koni ! badan vaght khahi dasht ba ye pesare khub rabeteh jeddi dashteh bashi .

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Posted 02 March 2008 - 06:37 PM

How do you know how old I am? :D

But yes I do feel that I'm too young to0o though not sure about 'hal o houl' :p :baby:

Iranian guys aren't that bad! Well not the good one's! :unsure:

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Posted 02 March 2008 - 06:43 PM

How do you know how old I am? :D

But yes I do feel that I'm too young to0o though not sure about 'hal o houl' :p :baby:

Iranian guys aren't that bad! Well not the good one's! :unsure:


beh Khoda zudeh !!! ajaleh nakon.badan mibini keh rast behet goftam va hagh dashtam .

pesar irunia bad nistan, vali to movazeb bash . dastan ziadeh az in chiza !

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Posted 02 March 2008 - 06:45 PM

^ So basically you feel that I should dodge this guy? What if its a 'lifetime opportunity'? LOOOL! Mage nemigan, shans yek bar dare khoone adam ro mizane. :giggle:

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Posted 03 March 2008 - 07:09 AM

I wouldn't normally make a post like this, nonetheless I thought it wouldn't hurt to see what the general opinion would be here. I'm not going to waffle nor will I go into detail so...

Very recently I met this Iranian guy, we exchanged numbers b/c he told me he could help me with one of my essays :D Hehe! But anyway he called me and invited me out to 'get to know each other', I rejected it politely and said that I would be free-er in 2 weeks time (which is the truth). HOWEVER, I am really annoyingly cautious sometimes when it comes to relationships. I choose to dodge and avoid them more than to 'give it a try'. The main reason being b/c I REALLY REALLY hate having to tell someone I'm not interested in them...

What do I need to do? Learn how to reject guys after seeing them a little? But emm how? :giggle: OR do I need to take a more optimistic outlook on relationships? If so, how is that possible when some people only settle down after their 100th relationship? :haha:



Hmmmm Interestingggg mademoiselle jooon!!!! :harhar_wft[1]:
passsss aroosi oftaadim? lol jk :dance_baby_wft:

how old is he?! va chand vaghte oonjas?

well um ... actually doesnt matter how old ... its all about compatibility... va inke cheghad mature bashe! hala mikhaad irooni basheh ya gheire irooni!
fekr mikonam ageh sa'y koni bishtar yani aval beshnaasish behtar basheh ta inke bekhaai aval dar morede relationship fekr koni ...

cheghadr baham harf zadid..??
but I guess worth trying ke chand bar ya hatta ye bar ham bahash coffee beri biroon,
vali tori nasheh ke chon dareh behet komak mikone dar morede essay-et ... talabkar beshe!!


inam ye bakhshi az nazare man lol ..

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Posted 03 March 2008 - 07:21 AM

^ Lo0o0oL :p

Thanks for the response Sepi Jo0oo0on! Parsal doost emsal ashena, I mean in terms of Bia2 hang outs hehe :brows:

I think he's 30ish but I have no idea, I haven't asked but I'm guessing he's like 30 considering what he does for a living and stuff. He's been here since he was 14 apparently. He thought my spoken Persian was really good compared to the average UK-born LOOOL!

We haven't spoken much, maybe first time we met and then like 4 times on the phone but it's pretty recent and I wouldn't say I know him completely. But compared to the average Iranian guy I come across he was rather a surprise and quite impressive.

The thing is I would want to just be friends and stuff then see what happens vali the manner in which he invited me out was not all that 'friendly' so I'm wondering whether to give the 'I'm not ready for relationships' excuse and 'let's stay friends for now' LOL :friends: But at the same time I don't want him to be disencouraged and disappear from the face of the Earth LOL! B/C he would think that I am uninterested and wouldn't want his ego trampled over too much Lo0oL!

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Posted 03 March 2008 - 07:37 AM

heheheh

Well, I know what u mean .. but as i said yeki 2 bar baham biroon raftan ke chizi o kharab nemikone =D
ageh khaast sheytooni koneh yaa aziat ... domesho gheychi kon :punishing_wft: ageh na ham ke ... lilililili be salaamatiii =D

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Posted 03 March 2008 - 07:40 AM

^ :))

LOL @ domesho gheychi kon, domb ke che arz konam *ahem* ro gheychi mikonam Lo0o0oL! :haha:

Merci Sepilicious Khano0o0o0om! :huglove: I shall keep you updated on the progress :p

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Posted 03 March 2008 - 08:04 AM

KhaaHHHHHHHhesh mikonamMMMM sahar Nanaazii :huglove: mwahhh

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Posted 03 March 2008 - 01:18 PM

^ So basically you feel that I should dodge this guy? What if its a 'lifetime opportunity'? LOOOL! Mage nemigan, shans yek bar dare khoone adam ro mizane. :giggle:



eh ... dokhtar chera harf goush nemikoni !?!?!?! in chiza hamash rouyeh sex hast ! love va love bazi vaghtesh hala nist ! ajaleh nakon, sex bokon ba har ki mikhai vali dareh ghalbeto rouyeh har kasi baz nakon. hameh mian migan areh khubeh ashegh bashid va etc ... akharesh keh taraf sareto kolah gozasht va delet ro shekund, ye kodum az in adama dor va varet nistan ke ye zarreh deldarit bedan,hamash harfeh... tajrobeh daram kilu kilu az bas didam !

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Posted 03 March 2008 - 02:41 PM

^ So basically you feel that I should dodge this guy? What if its a 'lifetime opportunity'? LOOOL! Mage nemigan, shans yek bar dare khoone adam ro mizane. :giggle:



eh ... dokhtar chera harf goush nemikoni !?!?!?! in chiza hamash rouyeh sex hast ! love va love bazi vaghtesh hala nist ! ajaleh nakon, sex bokon ba har ki mikhai vali dareh ghalbeto rouyeh har kasi baz nakon. hameh mian migan areh khubeh ashegh bashid va etc ... akharesh keh taraf sareto kolah gozasht va delet ro shekund, ye kodum az in adama dor va varet nistan ke ye zarreh deldarit bedan,hamash harfeh... tajrobeh daram kilu kilu az bas didam !


Actually I'm very optimistic of Love and my previous experiences have never been heart breaks or nasty tears. There was tears but Love tears, I don't know how to explain it. And also I'm by no means the sort of girl nor do have a sort of heart that can be easily trampled on :giggle: I am very strong. Dar zemn, who knows whether this will ever lead to Love. Love is something limited to only the best of us LOL!

As for 'sex', emmmmmmmmm I am in no way interested in casual sexual relationships :punk: LOL!

Hala chera to enghadr bad been hasti be Eshgh? I guess you've had some hard times in the past...?

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Posted 06 March 2008 - 06:21 PM

^ So basically you feel that I should dodge this guy? What if its a 'lifetime opportunity'? LOOOL! Mage nemigan, shans yek bar dare khoone adam ro mizane. :giggle:



eh ... dokhtar chera harf goush nemikoni !?!?!?! in chiza hamash rouyeh sex hast ! love va love bazi vaghtesh hala nist ! ajaleh nakon, sex bokon ba har ki mikhai vali dareh ghalbeto rouyeh har kasi baz nakon. hameh mian migan areh khubeh ashegh bashid va etc ... akharesh keh taraf sareto kolah gozasht va delet ro shekund, ye kodum az in adama dor va varet nistan ke ye zarreh deldarit bedan,hamash harfeh... tajrobeh daram kilu kilu az bas didam !


Actually I'm very optimistic of Love and my previous experiences have never been heart breaks or nasty tears. There was tears but Love tears, I don't know how to explain it. And also I'm by no means the sort of girl nor do have a sort of heart that can be easily trampled on :giggle: I am very strong. Dar zemn, who knows whether this will ever lead to Love. Love is something limited to only the best of us LOL!

As for 'sex', emmmmmmmmm I am in no way interested in casual sexual relationships :punk: LOL!

Hala chera to enghadr bad been hasti be Eshgh? I guess you've had some hard times in the past...?


eh..baz harfe khodesh ro zad !!!

Man bad been nistam ! ta hala har chi didam,khubesh ba ershgh nabudeh ! vaseh hamineh migam keh nemikhad hala hamash ba love beri jelo ! bazi vaghta adam bahas az khod razi basheh va faghat beh fekr-e emrouz basheh...Badan va chand saleh digeh harfe mano motevajeh mishi aziz .

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Posted 07 March 2008 - 12:19 PM

^ Hmmm nemidoonam vala vali ki az eshgh mention-e kard?

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Posted 12 March 2008 - 11:49 PM

khanumi...based on my personal experience, you shouldnt get involved with a guy u just met and think of it as a relationship. pesara rooshoon kheili mireh bala bayad movazeb bashi. Always know that the kind of relationship that sticks is one that is based on a friendship and not on a first time meeting sort of thing. I myself always end up dumping the guys becuz i figure that their expectations go beyond what i can offer....it isnt good because in the end ham man hurt misham ham pesara...

make sure that u know what u want...and the most important thing from what i gather is for us girls to stick to our education and career and looking for meaningful friendships....love doesnt happen in an instant...it grows over time. ;)

hope this helps! muah :air_kiss_wft:

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Posted 13 March 2008 - 12:12 PM

^ Thanks Makhoot Jo0on! For the advice! And I agree with you totally about the 'friendship' idea. I mean I don't feel any attraction with him which is b/c I've only met him once, which was first time and it was 'friendly' but it could've been a 'friendlier' outing suggestion LOL! Thanks again azizam! :air_kiss_wft:

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Posted 14 March 2008 - 07:45 PM

^ Thanks Makhoot Jo0on! For the advice! And I agree with you totally about the 'friendship' idea. I mean I don't feel any attraction with him which is b/c I've only met him once, which was first time and it was 'friendly' but it could've been a 'friendlier' outing suggestion LOL! Thanks again azizam! :air_kiss_wft:

np adidam.... =):air_kiss_wft: next time a guy asks you out behesh neshun bedeh ba ki tarafeh!! ye too gooshiam talabeshun lol muah!

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Posted 15 March 2008 - 04:53 AM

Date him, sexually abuse and then refuse him, later on try to confuse him (Just like most Iranian girls).

Voila mission accomplished, typical Iranian mama! :brows: :punishing_wft:

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Posted 15 March 2008 - 03:48 PM

:harhar_wft[1]: ageh bedunin in dokhtar iruni cheghad kar kardeh ta be inja resideh, ud give her flowers instead of a slap in the butt lol

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Posted 15 March 2008 - 06:55 PM

:harhar_wft[1]: ageh bedunin in dokhtar iruni cheghad kar kardeh ta be inja resideh,



Yes indeed they have, and what a long journey:





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